Saturday, January 13, 2007

more rants...

sigh... what should i say? not that i dun understand your predicament.. but at least have some sense of responsibility...

friends are impt to me.. esp long time friends, so much so that i would try to do anything to catch up and keep myself updated on what is really happening to them... but sorry to say, i also do have expectations of them... quite a few times i've been let down.. couldn't help but feel disappointed... but yet i tell myself to stay positive.. maybe things really cropped up last min, maybe u really fell sick last min... maybe it's a different expectations after all...

since the last birthday celebration i had where people were fashionably late, letting me wait as if i was obliged to, forgetting my present altogether, we never had everybody for birthday celebrations together anymore.. understand that all of us are busy... but what makes all of you think i am free? i work like the way you do, i have appointments like you do, what makes me any different from you? if your excuse is that you are so busy that you cannot send an sms out to me or anybody else, then i think it's just plain lazy on your end.. blame your poor time management...

if u change your mind last min cos your grandma, mother, father, grandaunt,blah blah is having some birthday dinner or some wedding dinner, then i would ask you, how come it didn't dawn on you earlier that it might be on this date as well? do u need a planner to write it down instead? or do u need a personal assistant instead?

if you do it once, fine.. i'm cool with it... twice, thrice... too often and i'm sorry.. i have better things to do then be bothered to sms you and ask you to go out, confirm all details with you and have you change your mind later... sorry peeps, i have friends who could better appreciate me in a better way....

dun take people's effort for granted, dun take ppl's time as your own.. otherwise, you will lose a friend in the end..

1 comment:

Pam said...

Hey Kate! It's been a long time since we chatted....

I'm sorry you're having a difficult time with your friends right now. And it really sucks that they are late :( I hate being late. I always try to be early.....

Anyways, I hope things get better for you and ppl start showing up!