Friday, November 12, 2004

For a friend who is grieving..

You have told me a little about him and how you met him over the internet and started a relationship over the net... however short the relationship was, you treasured it and you loved every single minute of it. Yet you did not understand why he moved away and when you finally realised why, you regretted not being persistent in calling him and showing him more of your love.

Do allow yourself to grieve for his passing as only time can heal your wounds. Do not blame yourself for whatever that has happened. You know that he wants you to remain happy and to be happy. Be glad that he has been released from his pains and knots. For him, it might be an easier way out and a happier one too.

Do find some time to talk to anybody around you. Do not keep everything to yourself. Even as you were to cry while talking, we will cry with you. Talk to Ah Pui.. I'm sure she understands. Late in the night, hug her to sleep and find comfort in her.

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