morals?

managed to talk a friend who recently broke up with her bf of six yrs recently... she didn't tell any of us until only a few days ago.. how did i feel? of course i felt that she has her reasons for not telling us earlier but then again i also have the feeling of like... "such a big issue happened and u kept quiet?" kind of feeling... me and another friend were kinda worried for her but after today's talk i guess she's ok... in fact, she's with another guy now... the one whom she said she wouldn't go with but i guess in the end, a total different ending does happen..

honestly, the way she ended the relationship and started on another is something that is very common in the matters of the heart.. but for me, i have experienced how it felt to have known that my ex have found another person almost immediately the relationship ended.. personally, i wouldn't do it... be nice to yourself and also to the other party i felt.. i felt the long singlehood i have had was good cos it gave me time to sort things out within myself... let me realise what kind of person i really wanted... and what kind of man i wouldn't go for anymore... not rush into another relationship without knowing what is happening and without letting the fact that the relationship has ended to sink in.. i'm not saying that whatever this friend has done is wrong but just that i wouldn't do it... i wouldn't be a third party and i wouldn't two time... i wouldn't be in a relationship and be thinking of somebody else... it's just not fair...

whatever it is, truly do hope that this friend has made a right decision... and not regret leaving the ex... or even choosing the present one...